I Think It Might Be Something Like Battered Wife Syndrome.

https://english.news.cn/20250113/be6187baf00d4c84b1551b0e7cbe1337/c.html

For 14 months they've had to endure the humilation of having Hamas control their weapons supply.

Somewhere in that time their brains broke and it became easier for them to believe it's something that want and deserve, rather than a source of great shame and humilation.