Presumably They're Speaking Relatively.

https://news.sky.com/story/woman-arrested-in-toulouse-after-tearing-off-large-part-of-skin-of-partners-genitals-during-argument-12919713

https://news.sky.com/story/kevin-spacey-trial-stars-police-interviews-read-to-jurors-who-hear-he-is-certain-he-did-not-sexually-assault-accusers-12919774

We're very clearly not witnessing the actions of big men.